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    • Thu, May 02, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    1VE240502

    The Tops Toolbox is a monthly class which is primarily focused on combining education and experience for those who identify as Tops, and as well as bottoms. It is held at the Fargo Moorhead Alternative Lifestyle Center, from 6p to 8p on the first Thursday of each month.

    • Fri, May 03, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 10:00 PM

    1MM240503


    Let’s all celebrate RedbeardsGhost’s 28th birthday!

    A lovely night with friends sharing food, potluck style and playing board games is how we will celebrate!

    Please bring your favorite board games and let’s try a few different ones throughout the night!
    The potluck theme will be tacos! Utilize the discussion in the event to coordinate the meal together!

    • Wed, May 08, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
    • FMALC

    Event ID 1MM240508


    SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society) is a submissive support group that meets on 

    the second Wednesday of the month! This is be a safe space for submissives to be open about their experiences and dynamic.

    The group is intended for submissives but is also open to switches as long as you are currently in a dynamic where you are on the submissive side of the slash and are not dominant of anyone in attendance.

    We meet from 6 to 8 at the FMALC



    • Thu, May 16, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    1RR240516


    Rope Study sessions are a great opportunity for newcomers to the group to meet other members and to work towards becoming vetted into the group.

    Rope Study sessions hosted by the Red River Rope group are open to anyone 18 years of age or older that has the desire to learn more about rope bondage. All skill and experience levels are welcome.

    The education that occurs at Rope Study sessions is primarily classroom-style, with a strong emphasis on group discussion.


    • Fri, May 17, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    1MM240517

    Some of us just can't decide - we want the best of both worlds!!! If you've ever felt yourself curious to explore the other side of the slash, or maybe you already have and want to learn more, this is the class for you! Discussing Switchy concepts like mid-scene switching, defined roles, and respect/headspace, you can plan to leave class with a better understanding and appreciation for switching in BDSM spaces.

    Presenter Bio: Glitterbitz is an active member in the kink scene (originally Fargo, currently Albuquerque, NM), self-proclaimed "kink geek", and lifelong kinkster. Never one to limit her choice of experiences, she takes a "Big Switch Energy" approach to kink and non-monogamy. Having observed a lot of kink education is focused on one side of the slash or the other, her goal is to foster conversations for those who straddle the slash. She has experience topping, and bottoming, for a variety of styles, including: impact, sensory deprivation or stimulation, mindfuckery, and denied or forced orgasm play, in both public dungeon and private scenes.

    Glitterbitz will teach us over video chat. I ask attendees not to be late and to be quiet during the presentation until it is time for questions.

    The presentation will start at 6:30 to allow time for attendees to check in and settle down.

    • Sun, May 19, 2024
    • 2:00 PM - 6:30 PM

    1MM240519


    Let’s watch “Hannibal” together!
    We will break this into multiple events to binge it all. We will watch episodes 9-13 at this event.

    The series consists of 3 seasons with 13 episodes per season, and each episode runs under 45 minutes. Find more information on the series here:
    https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2243973/

    You are welcome to bring snacks, blankets, and just be comfortable for this binge watch.

    • Thu, June 06, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    1VE240606

    The Tops Toolbox is a monthly class which is primarily focused on combining education and experience for those who identify as Tops, and as well as bottoms. It is held at the Fargo Moorhead Alternative Lifestyle Center, from 6p to 8p on the first Thursday of each month.

    • Wed, June 12, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
    • FMALC

    Event ID 1MM240612


    SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society) is a submissive support group that meets on 

    the second Wednesday of the month! This is be a safe space for submissives to be open about their experiences and dynamic.

    The group is intended for submissives but is also open to switches as long as you are currently in a dynamic where you are on the submissive side of the slash and are not dominant of anyone in attendance.

    We meet from 6 to 8 at the FMALC



    • Thu, June 20, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    1RR240620


    Rope Study sessions are a great opportunity for newcomers to the group to meet other members and to work towards becoming vetted into the group.

    Rope Study sessions hosted by the Red River Rope group are open to anyone 18 years of age or older that has the desire to learn more about rope bondage. All skill and experience levels are welcome.

    The education that occurs at Rope Study sessions is primarily classroom-style, with a strong emphasis on group discussion.


    • Thu, July 04, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    1VE240704

    The Tops Toolbox is a monthly class which is primarily focused on combining education and experience for those who identify as Tops, and as well as bottoms. It is held at the Fargo Moorhead Alternative Lifestyle Center, from 6p to 8p on the first Thursday of each month.

    • Wed, July 10, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
    • FMALC

    Event ID 1MM240710


    SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society) is a submissive support group that meets on 

    the second Wednesday of the month! This is be a safe space for submissives to be open about their experiences and dynamic.

    The group is intended for submissives but is also open to switches as long as you are currently in a dynamic where you are on the submissive side of the slash and are not dominant of anyone in attendance.

    We meet from 6 to 8 at the FMALC



    • Thu, August 01, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    1VE240801

    The Tops Toolbox is a monthly class which is primarily focused on combining education and experience for those who identify as Tops, and as well as bottoms. It is held at the Fargo Moorhead Alternative Lifestyle Center, from 6p to 8p on the first Thursday of each month.

    • Thu, August 15, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    1RR240815


    Rope Study sessions are a great opportunity for newcomers to the group to meet other members and to work towards becoming vetted into the group.

    Rope Study sessions hosted by the Red River Rope group are open to anyone 18 years of age or older that has the desire to learn more about rope bondage. All skill and experience levels are welcome.

    The education that occurs at Rope Study sessions is primarily classroom-style, with a strong emphasis on group discussion.


    • Thu, September 05, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    1VE240905

    The Tops Toolbox is a monthly class which is primarily focused on combining education and experience for those who identify as Tops, and as well as bottoms. It is held at the Fargo Moorhead Alternative Lifestyle Center, from 6p to 8p on the first Thursday of each month.

    • Wed, September 11, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
    • FMALC

    Event ID 1MM240911


    SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society) is a submissive support group that meets on 

    the second Wednesday of the month! This is be a safe space for submissives to be open about their experiences and dynamic.

    The group is intended for submissives but is also open to switches as long as you are currently in a dynamic where you are on the submissive side of the slash and are not dominant of anyone in attendance.

    We meet from 6 to 8 at the FMALC



    • Thu, September 19, 2024
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    1RR240919


    Rope Study sessions are a great opportunity for newcomers to the group to meet other members and to work towards becoming vetted into the group.

    Rope Study sessions hosted by the Red River Rope group are open to anyone 18 years of age or older that has the desire to learn more about rope bondage. All skill and experience levels are welcome.

    The education that occurs at Rope Study sessions is primarily classroom-style, with a strong emphasis on group discussion.


Past events

Wed, April 17, 2024 April Fools! Game Night
Wed, April 10, 2024 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Sun, April 07, 2024 "Hannibal” TV Series Binge Watch: Part 2
Sun, March 24, 2024 SUBS: Babbles and Crafts
Thu, March 21, 2024 March Rope Study
Fri, March 15, 2024 What are you afraid of? with guest speaker Devyn Stone
Wed, March 13, 2024 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Sun, March 10, 2024 “Hannibal” TV Series Binge Watch: Part 1
Thu, March 07, 2024 March Tops' Toolbox
Mon, February 26, 2024 Self-Love: Legally Blonde Movie Night
Sun, February 25, 2024 SUBS: Babbles and Crafts
Sat, February 24, 2024 Making an "Evil Stick"
Sat, February 24, 2024 RED: Do you love them, or do you love the idea of them?
Fri, February 23, 2024 Self Love, Self Care: First Aid Kits
Mon, February 19, 2024 Game Night! Cards Against Humanity
Thu, February 15, 2024 February Rope Study
Sun, February 04, 2024 SUBS: Legos and Listening
Thu, February 01, 2024 February Tops' Toolbox
Sat, January 27, 2024 RED: Breaking Down the Walls
Wed, January 24, 2024 Movie Night: Barbie
Sat, January 20, 2024 Community Game Day—January
Thu, January 18, 2024 January Rope Study
Mon, January 15, 2024 Game Night! Cards Against Humanity
Wed, January 10, 2024 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Sat, January 06, 2024 Candy Caning
Thu, January 04, 2024 January Tops' Toolbox
Sun, December 31, 2023 New Year New Elephant
Sat, December 23, 2023 RED: Balancing Kink and Home Life
Fri, December 22, 2023 Festival of Lights: Winter Solstice Celebration
Thu, December 21, 2023 December Rope Study
Wed, December 20, 2023 Winter Solstice: Yule Logs and Wreaths
Sat, December 16, 2023 Community Game Day—December
Fri, December 15, 2023 Movie Night: Die Hard & Violent Night
Fri, December 15, 2023 Hot Cocoa, Bake Sale, and Service: Fundraiser for FMALC
Wed, December 13, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Thu, December 07, 2023 December Tops' Toolbox
Wed, December 06, 2023 SUBS: Hot Cocoa Protocol Planning
Fri, December 01, 2023 Movie Night: Barbarian
Thu, November 30, 2023 Kink-O-Ween: Werewolf Primal Connected Scents!
Sat, November 25, 2023 What to do when you're down and low
Sun, November 19, 2023 Happy Helpful Sadism
Sat, November 18, 2023 Community Game Day—November
Fri, November 17, 2023 Friday Game Night! Cards Against Humanity
Wed, November 08, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Wed, November 01, 2023 Movie Night: Breeder
Sun, October 29, 2023 Kink-o-ween: Spooky Films!
Sun, October 29, 2023 Kink-o-ween: Jack-o-Lantern
Sat, October 28, 2023 Boot Blacking, Part 2
Sat, October 28, 2023 Community Game Day—November
Sat, October 28, 2023 Dealing with Miscommunications
Sat, October 21, 2023 Community Game Day—October
Sat, October 14, 2023 BDSM Curiosity to knowledge: You want to do what, to who, for how many cookies?
Sat, October 07, 2023 Boot Blacking, Part 1
Thu, September 28, 2023 Primal Wrestling Negotiations
Sun, September 24, 2023 SUBS Babbles and Crafts
Thu, September 21, 2023 September Rope Study
Sat, September 16, 2023 Community Game Day—September
Wed, September 13, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Thu, September 07, 2023 September Tops' Toolbox
Sun, August 27, 2023 SUBS—Babbles and Crafts
Sat, August 19, 2023 Community Game Day—August
Thu, August 17, 2023 August Rope Study
Wed, August 09, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Thu, August 03, 2023 August Tops' Toolbox
Thu, July 20, 2023 July Rope Study
Wed, July 12, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Sun, July 09, 2023 SUBS - Babbles and Crafts
Thu, July 06, 2023 July Tops' Toolbox
Sun, June 25, 2023 Red Valley Rainbow: Pride Rainbow Candles
Thu, June 22, 2023 Psychology of D/s
Thu, June 15, 2023 June Rope Study
Wed, June 14, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Sun, June 11, 2023 SUBS - Babbles and Crafts
Sat, June 10, 2023 Riding the edge
Thu, June 01, 2023 June Tops' Toolbox
Wed, May 31, 2023 Sensory, Pain, and Pleasure: Pleasure
Sat, May 20, 2023 Community Game Day—May
Thu, May 18, 2023 May Rope Study
Wed, May 10, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Tue, May 09, 2023 FMALC Open Library Hours
Thu, May 04, 2023 May Tops' Toolbox
Sun, April 23, 2023 Movie Night! How to Build a Sex Room binge watching session Part 2
Thu, April 20, 2023 April Rope Study
Sun, April 16, 2023 SUBS: Babbles and Crafts
Sat, April 15, 2023 Community Game Day—April
Wed, April 12, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Thu, April 06, 2023 April Tops' Toolbox
Sun, March 26, 2023 Movie Night! How to Build a Sex Room binge watching session
Sat, March 18, 2023 Community Game Day—March
Thu, March 16, 2023 March Rope Study
Wed, March 08, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Tue, March 07, 2023 FMALC Open Library Hours
Thu, March 02, 2023 March Tops' Toolbox
Sat, February 18, 2023 Community Game Day—February
Thu, February 16, 2023 February Rope Study
Wed, February 08, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Thu, February 02, 2023 February Tops' Toolbox
Sat, January 21, 2023 Community Game Day—January
Thu, January 19, 2023 January Rope Study
Wed, January 11, 2023 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Thu, January 05, 2023 January Tops' Toolbox
Wed, December 21, 2022 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Sat, December 17, 2022 Community Game Day
Thu, December 15, 2022 December Rope Study
Thu, December 01, 2022 December Tops' Toolbox
Sat, November 19, 2022 Community Game Day
Thu, November 17, 2022 November Rope Study
Wed, November 09, 2022 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Thu, November 03, 2022 November Tops' Toolbox
Tue, November 01, 2022 FMALC Open Library Hours
Sat, October 15, 2022 Community Game Day
Wed, October 12, 2022 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Sat, October 08, 2022 Alternative Lifestyle Series: ENM
Tue, October 04, 2022 FMALC Open Library Hours
Sat, September 17, 2022 Community Game Day
Mon, September 12, 2022 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Sun, September 11, 2022 September Rope Study
Sat, September 10, 2022 Alternative Lifestyle Series: Littles, Middles, Mommies and Daddies
Thu, September 01, 2022 Tops' Toolbox
Sat, August 20, 2022 Alternative Lifestyle Series
Sun, August 14, 2022 August Rope Study
Wed, August 10, 2022 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Tue, July 26, 2022 FMALC Open Library Hours
Sun, July 10, 2022 Red River Rope - Rope Study
Sat, July 09, 2022 Alternative Lifestyle Series: What I Wish I Knew Sooner…Exploring ENM
Thu, July 07, 2022 Tops' Toolbox
Sat, June 18, 2022 Community DnD/Game Day
Sun, June 12, 2022 Red River Rope - Rope Study
Sat, June 11, 2022 Alternative Lifestyle Series: Ethical Non-Monogamy
Thu, June 02, 2022 Tops' Toolbox
Sat, May 21, 2022 DnD/Game Day
Wed, May 18, 2022 Closed for Admin Purposes
Sun, May 15, 2022 Private Event
Mon, May 09, 2022 Closed for Admin Purposes
Sun, May 08, 2022 Red River Rope - Rope Study
Thu, May 05, 2022 Tops' Toolbox
Sun, May 01, 2022 Private Event
Sat, April 30, 2022 Town hall
Fri, April 29, 2022 Movie night
Sun, April 24, 2022 Private Event
Sun, December 12, 2021 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, December 02, 2021 Top's Toolbox
Sun, November 14, 2021 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, November 04, 2021 Top's Toolbox
Sun, October 10, 2021 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, October 07, 2021 Top's Toolbox
Sun, September 12, 2021 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, September 02, 2021 Top's Toolbox
Thu, August 19, 2021 BDSM 101 Hosted by Dakota Kinksters
Sun, August 08, 2021 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, August 05, 2021 Top's Toolbox
Thu, July 22, 2021 Basic Aftercare Kits 101 (Presented by: Dakota Kinksters)
Sat, May 29, 2021 FMALC MOVIE TURBO EXTREME EXPLODING ACTION, BABES, GUNS, AND PIZZA....appreciation night
Mon, May 24, 2021 May's Full Flower Supermoon - ND Pagans & Wiccans
Thu, May 13, 2021 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Thu, April 22, 2021 BDSM 101 - Safety, Negotiation, and Consent
Sat, April 10, 2021 GAME NIGHT - HOSTED BY LIL KOTA'S
Thu, April 08, 2021 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Sat, March 27, 2021 Game Day!
Thu, March 11, 2021 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Mon, March 08, 2021 PRIVATE RENTAL
Sun, March 07, 2021 March Rope Study: Materials, diameters, lengths, and uses of bondage rope
Thu, March 04, 2021 Tops Toolbox
Sat, February 27, 2021 Game Day!
Fri, February 26, 2021 Polyamorous Relationships - Professor Marston and the Wonder Women: Movie & Discussion - Hosted By Fargo Moorhead Social Connections
Thu, February 11, 2021 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Thu, February 04, 2021 Tops Toolbox
Thu, January 14, 2021 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Tue, January 12, 2021 Booked
Thu, January 07, 2021 Tops' Toolbox: Intro To Topping - Hosted by Veleon
Mon, December 28, 2020 TEA AND TAROT - North Dakota Pagans & Wiccans
Sun, December 20, 2020 FM Ladies Night - Game Day and Holiday Gift Exchange
Sun, December 13, 2020 December Rope Study
Thu, December 10, 2020 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Fri, December 04, 2020 Movie Nostalgia: A Time to be in '93
Sat, November 28, 2020 (Last Minute) Post-Holiday Movie Escape!
Mon, November 16, 2020 BDSM 101: Safety, Negotiation, and Consent
Thu, November 05, 2020 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Sat, October 31, 2020 Private Event
Mon, October 26, 2020 Tarot Card Success: The Make Up Class
Sun, October 11, 2020 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, October 08, 2020 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Fri, September 11, 2020 Movie Nostalgia - Great in 1998
Wed, September 09, 2020 Tarot Card Success - The Complete Tarot Reading Course **DATE CHANGE**
Sat, September 05, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Thu, August 27, 2020 Private Event
Sat, August 22, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Mon, August 17, 2020 Poly Relationships 101: Setting Guidelines and Clear Communication
Mon, August 10, 2020 FMALC Book Club
Sun, August 09, 2020 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Sat, August 08, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Wed, August 05, 2020 BDSM 101: Safety, Negotiation, and Consent
Sat, July 25, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Mon, July 20, 2020 Post Campout Recovery - Hosted by Veleon
Sun, July 12, 2020 FMALC Book Club
Sat, July 11, 2020 FMALC's Inaugural Summer Social
Sat, July 11, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Sat, June 27, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Fri, June 19, 2020 FMALC Presents: Isolation Movies...Together
Thu, June 18, 2020 Private Event
Sun, June 14, 2020 June Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Fri, June 12, 2020 Private Event
Sun, June 07, 2020 Sunday Debate - Hosted by Veleon
Sat, June 06, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Sat, May 23, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Fri, May 22, 2020 Private Event
Thu, May 21, 2020 Private Event
Thu, May 21, 2020 Private Event
Sun, May 10, 2020 May Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Sat, May 09, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Sun, May 03, 2020 Sunday Debate - Hosted by Veleon
Sat, April 25, 2020 Polyamorous Relationships - Professor Marston and the Wonder Women: Movie & Discussion - Hosted By Fargo Moorhead Social Connections
Sat, April 25, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Sat, April 18, 2020 Private Event
Sun, April 12, 2020 April Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Sat, April 11, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Fri, April 10, 2020 **CANCELLED** FMALC Presents: So bad it's Good Friday
Sun, April 05, 2020 Sunday Debate - Hosted by Veleon
Sat, March 28, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Mon, March 23, 2020 **CANCELLED** FMALC Gaming Night Hosted by Luna
Fri, March 20, 2020 **CANCELLED** Get Lucked Up- A St. Patty's Day Bad Movie Marathon
Thu, March 19, 2020 Private Event
Sat, March 14, 2020 Private Event
Fri, March 13, 2020 Private Event
Sun, March 08, 2020 March Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Sat, March 07, 2020 Private Event
Sun, March 01, 2020 Sunday Debate - Hosted by Veleon
Sat, February 29, 2020 Age Regression 101 - Hosted Fargo Moorhead Social Connections
Fri, February 28, 2020 Private Event
Mon, February 24, 2020 FMALC Gaming Night February 2020 - Hosted by Luna
Sat, February 22, 2020 You Are the Lizard King! - Hosted by DK Animals
Fri, February 14, 2020 FMALC Presents: VD - Movies you'll love to Hate
Wed, February 12, 2020 Private meeting
Sun, February 09, 2020 February Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Sun, February 02, 2020 Sunday Debate - Hosted by Veleon
Sat, February 01, 2020 FMALC Open House, Silent Auction, & Book Drive
Thu, January 23, 2020 Private Event
Sun, January 12, 2020 January Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, January 02, 2020 Setup Get-together
Wed, January 01, 2020 Cuddle puddle in the test bed, hosted by The Testers
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