Upcoming events

    • Mon, May 09, 2022
    • Mon, August 29, 2022
    • 9 sessions
    • FMALC

    Booked for Administration and Maintenance

    • Wed, May 18, 2022
    • Wed, August 24, 2022
    • 7 sessions
    • FMALC

    Booked for Administration and Maintenance

    • Tue, July 26, 2022
    • Thu, September 29, 2022
    • 20 sessions
    • FMALC

    Take the time to peruse our library, have a short chat with FMALC staff, or share a coffee with friends. FMALC Open Library Hours are a time for anyone who lives an alternative lifestyle to relax, chat, and check out the space.

    FMALC Open Library Hours are an ideal time to drop off in-kind donations!

    The FMALC is open to guests (18+) every Tuesday and Thursday, 2pm-6pm. (Library Hours may sometimes end early if another event has been scheduled.)

    • Sat, August 20, 2022
    • 3:00 PM - 5:00 PM

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    Join us for our next session in the Alternative Lifestyle Series. Presentations will be appropriate for individuals newly interested in learning about each topic and veteran practitioners alike. This month's topic continues the theme of Ethical Non-Monogamy but adds in the variable of [potential] BDSM crossover. We will look at some historic beliefs about the two lifestyles and how things have evolved in these communities to become more accepting of one another.

    A discussion/question/answer period will follow the presentation.

    Doors will open and check-ins will begin at 2:30 . Focused discussions and presentations will begin at 3:15 pm. Our plan is to offer a monthly education, discussion, and support forum for those who are interested in learning more about various forms of Alternative Lifestyles.

    This public educational event is usually offered the 2nd Saturday of each month. This month's class conflicted with the Pride in the Park Saturday so the facilitator has chosen to reschedule.

    • Thu, September 01, 2022
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
    • FMALC

    EVENT ID: 1VE220901

    The Tops' Toolbox is a monthly class which is focused on combining education with experience for those who identify as a Top. It is held at the Fargo Moorhead Alternative Lifestyle Center, from 6p to 8p on the first Thursday of each month. Doors open and check-ins begin at 5:30p. Focused topical discussion begins at 6:15p.

    • Sun, September 11, 2022
    • 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM

    Event ID: 1RR220911

    September Rope Study: Materials, diameters, lengths, and uses of bondage rope

    Join us in-person at the FMALC for the September Rope Study. We will get our hands on some rope, and learn a bit about the rope itself.

    Rope Study sessions are a great opportunity for newcomers to the group to meet other members and to work towards becoming vetted into the group.

    Rope Study sessions hosted by the Red River Rope group are open to anyone 18 years of age or older that has the desire to learn more about rope bondage. All skill and experience levels are welcome.
    The education that occurs at Rope Study sessions is primarily classroom-style, with a strong emphasis on group discussion.
    Attending a Rope Study Session is one way to progress towards becoming vetted in the group, which is required to attend the next level of the education, Rope Lab sessions, where hands-on tying will occur. No tying occurs at Rope Study sessions.

    • Mon, September 12, 2022
    • 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

    Event ID 1MM220912


    SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society) is a submissive support group. This is a safe space for submissives to be open about their experiences and dynamic. The group is intended for submissives but is also open to switches as long as you are currently in a dynamic where you are on the submissive side of the slash and are not dominant of anyone in attendance. This month due to schedule conflicts, we will meet on the second Monday, September 12. We meet from 6 to 8 at the FMALC This month's topic: What does your submission and dynamic look like? What does it mean to you?

Past events

Sun, August 14, 2022 August Rope Study
Wed, August 10, 2022 SUBS (Submissive Uncensored Babbles Society)
Sun, July 10, 2022 Red River Rope - Rope Study
Sat, July 09, 2022 Alternative Lifestyle Series: What I Wish I Knew Sooner…Exploring ENM
Thu, July 07, 2022 Tops' Toolbox
Sat, June 18, 2022 Community DnD/Game Day
Sun, June 12, 2022 Red River Rope - Rope Study
Sat, June 11, 2022 Alternative Lifestyle Series: Ethical Non-Monogamy
Thu, June 02, 2022 Tops' Toolbox
Sat, May 21, 2022 DnD/Game Day
Sun, May 15, 2022 Private Event
Sun, May 08, 2022 Red River Rope - Rope Study
Thu, May 05, 2022 Tops' Toolbox
Sun, May 01, 2022 Private Event
Sat, April 30, 2022 Town hall
Fri, April 29, 2022 Movie night
Sun, April 24, 2022 Private Event
Sun, December 12, 2021 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, December 02, 2021 Top's Toolbox
Sun, November 14, 2021 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, November 04, 2021 Top's Toolbox
Sun, October 10, 2021 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, October 07, 2021 Top's Toolbox
Sun, September 12, 2021 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, September 02, 2021 Top's Toolbox
Thu, August 19, 2021 BDSM 101 Hosted by Dakota Kinksters
Sun, August 08, 2021 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, August 05, 2021 Top's Toolbox
Thu, July 22, 2021 Basic Aftercare Kits 101 (Presented by: Dakota Kinksters)
Sat, May 29, 2021 FMALC MOVIE TURBO EXTREME EXPLODING ACTION, BABES, GUNS, AND PIZZA....appreciation night
Mon, May 24, 2021 May's Full Flower Supermoon - ND Pagans & Wiccans
Thu, May 13, 2021 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Thu, April 22, 2021 BDSM 101 - Safety, Negotiation, and Consent
Sat, April 10, 2021 GAME NIGHT - HOSTED BY LIL KOTA'S
Thu, April 08, 2021 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Sat, March 27, 2021 Game Day!
Thu, March 11, 2021 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Mon, March 08, 2021 PRIVATE RENTAL
Sun, March 07, 2021 March Rope Study: Materials, diameters, lengths, and uses of bondage rope
Thu, March 04, 2021 Tops Toolbox
Sat, February 27, 2021 Game Day!
Fri, February 26, 2021 Polyamorous Relationships - Professor Marston and the Wonder Women: Movie & Discussion - Hosted By Fargo Moorhead Social Connections
Thu, February 11, 2021 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Thu, February 04, 2021 Tops Toolbox
Thu, January 14, 2021 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Tue, January 12, 2021 Booked
Thu, January 07, 2021 Tops' Toolbox: Intro To Topping - Hosted by Veleon
Mon, December 28, 2020 TEA AND TAROT - North Dakota Pagans & Wiccans
Sun, December 20, 2020 FM Ladies Night - Game Day and Holiday Gift Exchange
Sun, December 13, 2020 December Rope Study
Thu, December 10, 2020 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Fri, December 04, 2020 Movie Nostalgia: A Time to be in '93
Sat, November 28, 2020 (Last Minute) Post-Holiday Movie Escape!
Mon, November 16, 2020 BDSM 101: Safety, Negotiation, and Consent
Thu, November 05, 2020 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Sat, October 31, 2020 Private Event
Mon, October 26, 2020 Tarot Card Success: The Make Up Class
Sun, October 11, 2020 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, October 08, 2020 Monthly Submissive Support Meeting
Fri, September 11, 2020 Movie Nostalgia - Great in 1998
Wed, September 09, 2020 Tarot Card Success - The Complete Tarot Reading Course **DATE CHANGE**
Sat, September 05, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Thu, August 27, 2020 Private Event
Sat, August 22, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Mon, August 17, 2020 Poly Relationships 101: Setting Guidelines and Clear Communication
Mon, August 10, 2020 FMALC Book Club
Sun, August 09, 2020 Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Sat, August 08, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Wed, August 05, 2020 BDSM 101: Safety, Negotiation, and Consent
Sat, July 25, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Mon, July 20, 2020 Post Campout Recovery - Hosted by Veleon
Sun, July 12, 2020 FMALC Book Club
Sat, July 11, 2020 FMALC's Inaugural Summer Social
Sat, July 11, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Sat, June 27, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Fri, June 19, 2020 FMALC Presents: Isolation Movies...Together
Thu, June 18, 2020 Private Event
Sun, June 14, 2020 June Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Fri, June 12, 2020 Private Event
Sun, June 07, 2020 Sunday Debate - Hosted by Veleon
Sat, June 06, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Sat, May 23, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Fri, May 22, 2020 Private Event
Thu, May 21, 2020 Private Event
Thu, May 21, 2020 Private Event
Sun, May 10, 2020 May Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Sat, May 09, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Sun, May 03, 2020 Sunday Debate - Hosted by Veleon
Sat, April 25, 2020 Polyamorous Relationships - Professor Marston and the Wonder Women: Movie & Discussion - Hosted By Fargo Moorhead Social Connections
Sat, April 25, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Sat, April 18, 2020 Private Event
Sun, April 12, 2020 April Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Sat, April 11, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Fri, April 10, 2020 **CANCELLED** FMALC Presents: So bad it's Good Friday
Sun, April 05, 2020 Sunday Debate - Hosted by Veleon
Sat, March 28, 2020 Private Event - Comical Chaos
Mon, March 23, 2020 **CANCELLED** FMALC Gaming Night Hosted by Luna
Fri, March 20, 2020 **CANCELLED** Get Lucked Up- A St. Patty's Day Bad Movie Marathon
Thu, March 19, 2020 Private Event
Sat, March 14, 2020 Private Event
Fri, March 13, 2020 Private Event
Sun, March 08, 2020 March Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Sat, March 07, 2020 Private Event
Sun, March 01, 2020 Sunday Debate - Hosted by Veleon
Sat, February 29, 2020 Age Regression 101 - Hosted Fargo Moorhead Social Connections
Fri, February 28, 2020 Private Event
Mon, February 24, 2020 FMALC Gaming Night February 2020 - Hosted by Luna
Sat, February 22, 2020 You Are the Lizard King! - Hosted by DK Animals
Fri, February 14, 2020 FMALC Presents: VD - Movies you'll love to Hate
Wed, February 12, 2020 Private meeting
Sun, February 09, 2020 February Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Sun, February 02, 2020 Sunday Debate - Hosted by Veleon
Sat, February 01, 2020 FMALC Open House, Silent Auction, & Book Drive
Thu, January 23, 2020 Private Event
Sun, January 12, 2020 January Rope Study - Hosted by Red River Rope
Thu, January 02, 2020 Setup Get-together
Wed, January 01, 2020 Cuddle puddle in the test bed, hosted by The Testers
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